In a recent conversation with my daughter, I was reminded of the societal pressures that shape our perceptions. When she told me that math was “a boy thing,” it sparked a deeper reflection on how we, especially women, are often expected to choose between different parts of ourselves—whether that’s career, motherhood, or personal fulfillment. From fictional characters like Miranda Priestly to real-life figures like Indra Nooyi, women are portrayed in roles that often demand sacrifices across different facets of their identities. Yet, I’ve come to realize that real fulfillment doesn’t come from choosing one identity over another—it’s about embracing the integration of all aspects of who we are.